Including family and friends in your wedding ceremony can be exciting and a lot of fun! Many memories are formed when working with people you’re close to, particularly in the context of a special family event.
But there are also some things to consider to make it all go smoothly. This article will help you include family members or friends as your ceremony musicians.
Keep the bigger picture in mind
Before you ask the person, think about the big picture for a moment and ask yourself these questions:
- What level or quality of music do you want?
- Can the person play (or sing) at the level you want or might the person’s music detract from all the rest of the ceremony’s music?
- Does the person’s instrument or style match what you want in the ceremony? It might be a courteous gesture to ask, but if it’s not what you’re looking for, don’t feel obliged to ask.
- Would having that person play put your relative or friend in an awkward or embarrassing situation?
- Would asking one relative or friend over another cause any relational issues?
These are questions ultimately you need to answer. Who you choose makes a difference; there’s more to it than merely asking.
But using family members or friends is a great way to further personalize your ceremony and give talented friends or family an opportunity to express their joy for your marriage!
Planning tips
Context will play a big part in how this meeting plays out. There are many talented musicians out there. I’ve played in and attended weddings in which the couple used gifted friends from college: cellists, flutists, trumpet players, harpists, brass quintets, and others, and the music was spectacular!
Want more?
There are plenty of tips on how to effectively use friends and family musicians in your ceremony that are included in Wedding Music Unveiled’s church wedding music how-to guide. Check it out so that your ceremony is every bit as meaningful as is should be!
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